Butch Gray D.J. / Entertainer

Connecticut Lesbian & Gay Wedding D.J.

Gay Friendly & Professional with A Touch of Class

Member of the National Association of Mobile Entertainers & the Central CT Chambers of Commerce

Butch Gray has the Ability to Read a Crowd & Create Excitement!

Founded in 1990 after DJing many parties through "word of mouth," Butch Gray established himself by subcontracting his services. Communication with his clients before the event to discuss their desires and answer their questions is part of the foundation of his company. His ability to read a crowd and generate excitement with his enthusiasm are without question the best you may ever see.

Connecticut Gay Wedding Reception DJ

A wedding reception is a day the couple has dreamed of for a long time. Many brides tell us that they have thought of this day their whole life. Your dress, flowers, cake…even your guests have all been carefully selected. Your DJ requires this degree of consideration as well.

Once the day has come you need someone that can coordinate you, your bridal party, your family, your guests and other wedding professionals that you have hired. Butch Gray will do all of this and provide you with…Memories to cherish for a lifetime.

Connecticut Private Functions DJ

I love to entertain it would be my pleasure to help you and your friends celebrate your special occasion. From house parties to sports stadiums…I've played many different venues and have the ability to adapt to my customers wishes.

Common Questions About Wedding DJ Services

Will Butch Gray be responsive to our concerns about sound level?

It is important to us that the guests at your party be comfortable with the volume of the music. We are dedicated to keeping the music throughout the party at a level that is exciting, yet does not blow out your eardrums.

What is "Continuous Music" and how does it affect my party?

"Continuous Music" means that there will always be music playing throughout your event. As dinner is served, music that you select, will be played. You and your guests can enjoy Classical music, Contemporary or Standard Jazz, Pop, mellow Rock standards, or Big Band Favorites plus your requests.

What if the Couple lives out of state?

If you are planning a local wedding, but live out of town, we will work with you to facilitate the long distance planning process. We will be there for you, and will keep the lines of communication open to answer your questions every step of the way. Most information can be forwarded via email if you can not visit before your wedding day.

Why do you place your speakers on stands?

Sound travels better when it is unobstructed. This ensures that people in the back of a room can hear the music and announcements well, while not overpowering the guests closer to the speakers. The sound can be kept at a moderate level for all to enjoy. This is especially important during the cocktail hour and dinner when most people are catching up with people they may not have seen for some time.

Do you carry back up equipment?

An extra system is built in to my standard system. If for example, a Compact Disc player is not working properly, I have three others built in to the system. If for some reason there was a power surge that damaged my standard system, I have another in my vehicle.

How long have you been DJ'ing?

I have been working as a professional DJ since 1989. Before I practiced my craft at various parties since I was eight years old. How many songs can you play an hour? I can play an average of fourteen songs an hour. If there are fewer special events, more songs can be played and of course, more events would mean fewer songs could be played.

What happens if you are sick?

I have never missed an event. In all the years I have been a professional DJ, I have only had to use a backup once. Since I am a member of the DJ Network, there is always a backup available. If there are additional costs for a back up DJ's service, it comes out of my pocket, not yours.